Kissing Frogs, Neighbor BS and Good Times
Another frog kissed...*sigh* Men, please tell your single male friends to man up and tell a woman what they really want. The more honest you are the less BS you and I will have to deal with. Oh well. Faith in is God, not man. I move forward with that issue too.
A crazy neighbor w/husband who does not understand you just do NOT do what you wish on another's property. They are beyond crazy and they are in their late 40's early 50's with this crap. Both very much stuck in high school. This is the deal. There was a hole that sat on both sides of our property line. They have a fence and wanted to get it fixed and it would not stand without the hole being fixed and their land being leveled. Instead of talking to me, they just did what they wanted. I wrote a note and told them congrats about their home improvements and also alerted them that I was interested in knowing when the work would be complete. These two stupid so called adults walked around the neighborhood asking questions about any comments I made to the other neighbors instead of talking to me. The man told my older neighbor that I have NO issues with at all, "your neighbor wanted the fence out of their yard" Boo-hoo. Looking for symphathy and a liar to boot. I think that maybe he cannot read. That is not what my note said. I think when it comes down to it, they did not expect me to take a stand, and I did. The wife called leaving a ugly condescending message on my voicemail. I maintained my calm when I contacted her, though I wanted to cuss out Dummy 1 &2 . I paid for half of the repair. I was going to get it done anyway. El Stupo did not ask me. Had the audacity to tell my older neighbor, "we thought we were doing her a favor" Yet, the first thing that you do is sit back and I am sure, listen as your wife leaves an ugly message on my phone. Whateva. Favor my butt. You thought because you wanted an improvement done, and I clearly was not getting any done, ie. finances did not allow, it gave you the right to do what you wanted because it was about your home, what I wanted thought etc. be damned.
Now the issue is that I do not want them on my property, and you know what they are right. I want to live a peaceful life. Keep it moving. At first the guy standing on his property to talk loudly to my older neighbor and not encroaching on mine made me uncomfortable. I am a woman of peace and forgiveness. However, forgivenenss does not mean stepping stool or rug. If this keeps the peace, so be it. You will not do whatever the hell you want with my property or my life.
Communication 101. Don't do stuff with property that does not belong to you without prior permission or discussion.
I pray for both of them. I refuse to drop to their level. Once again, I refused that is. I will not even get into the escalation over a mail box. You read right. The height of stupidity at its best again. I will do what is right, though in all honesty I wanted to show my azz. I will forgive them, cause it is clear they know not what they do. They also obviously do not intimately know the God I serve. It's all good. The uncomfortable feeling will pass, and I will get over it. I pray they do the same or they will talk to a lawyer instead of me. I will also move on from this hood. It was already in the plans, this is just added incentive to do so quicker. Instead of in the next 3 years, in the next year and maybe a half. Who knows.
Frogs and BS. What a combo. Ummm. Do I hear another ribbit in the distance, or was that nonsense babble from the mouths of idiots? *sigh*
LOL
Weekend was still nice though. Hung out with my girls. Had a great time. Made plans for next weekend. Life keeps changing and I move on. Began making/creating a new friend. The wheel keeps turning, and I keep moving forward. Sweet.
Ciao, for now
Kita
A crazy neighbor w/husband who does not understand you just do NOT do what you wish on another's property. They are beyond crazy and they are in their late 40's early 50's with this crap. Both very much stuck in high school. This is the deal. There was a hole that sat on both sides of our property line. They have a fence and wanted to get it fixed and it would not stand without the hole being fixed and their land being leveled. Instead of talking to me, they just did what they wanted. I wrote a note and told them congrats about their home improvements and also alerted them that I was interested in knowing when the work would be complete. These two stupid so called adults walked around the neighborhood asking questions about any comments I made to the other neighbors instead of talking to me. The man told my older neighbor that I have NO issues with at all, "your neighbor wanted the fence out of their yard" Boo-hoo. Looking for symphathy and a liar to boot. I think that maybe he cannot read. That is not what my note said. I think when it comes down to it, they did not expect me to take a stand, and I did. The wife called leaving a ugly condescending message on my voicemail. I maintained my calm when I contacted her, though I wanted to cuss out Dummy 1 &2 . I paid for half of the repair. I was going to get it done anyway. El Stupo did not ask me. Had the audacity to tell my older neighbor, "we thought we were doing her a favor" Yet, the first thing that you do is sit back and I am sure, listen as your wife leaves an ugly message on my phone. Whateva. Favor my butt. You thought because you wanted an improvement done, and I clearly was not getting any done, ie. finances did not allow, it gave you the right to do what you wanted because it was about your home, what I wanted thought etc. be damned.
Now the issue is that I do not want them on my property, and you know what they are right. I want to live a peaceful life. Keep it moving. At first the guy standing on his property to talk loudly to my older neighbor and not encroaching on mine made me uncomfortable. I am a woman of peace and forgiveness. However, forgivenenss does not mean stepping stool or rug. If this keeps the peace, so be it. You will not do whatever the hell you want with my property or my life.
Communication 101. Don't do stuff with property that does not belong to you without prior permission or discussion.
I pray for both of them. I refuse to drop to their level. Once again, I refused that is. I will not even get into the escalation over a mail box. You read right. The height of stupidity at its best again. I will do what is right, though in all honesty I wanted to show my azz. I will forgive them, cause it is clear they know not what they do. They also obviously do not intimately know the God I serve. It's all good. The uncomfortable feeling will pass, and I will get over it. I pray they do the same or they will talk to a lawyer instead of me. I will also move on from this hood. It was already in the plans, this is just added incentive to do so quicker. Instead of in the next 3 years, in the next year and maybe a half. Who knows.
Frogs and BS. What a combo. Ummm. Do I hear another ribbit in the distance, or was that nonsense babble from the mouths of idiots? *sigh*
LOL
Weekend was still nice though. Hung out with my girls. Had a great time. Made plans for next weekend. Life keeps changing and I move on. Began making/creating a new friend. The wheel keeps turning, and I keep moving forward. Sweet.
Ciao, for now
Kita
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